Finding the Beauty, Rarity and Clarity

It has been quite some time since we have written and shared with you all our lives! A lot has been happening on the past 2 months for my love and I from spending every waking moment together of everyday to now being separated by distance and navigating the waters of this new journey together. First and foremost I must say how truly grateful I am everyday for El Rey in my life and loving me the way he does, he is my greatest gift from above and I do cherish that man!

Lately I’ve been reading a lot more about soulmates, the definitions, the characteristics, the study of it even and how this type relationship is extremely different to any other ordinary love relationship out there. I am sure everyone knows most common characteristics of soulmates so I won’t go into detail listing them and I am also sure most people these days no longer believe in an actual soulmate. That is something that I can proudly say I cannot agree with because my sweetheart and I are living proof that they do exist. The truth is, that most of get “soulmates” confused with someone who is more of a life partner. A life partner is someone of course you can have deep love and connection to, they can be a great supporter and staple in your life, however there will ALWAYS be something missing, not for their lack or your lack of trying, but because if it isn’t your soulmate, just inherently they will be limited in what they can do for your spirit. Whereas with your true soulmate, you will feel completely intact and that no piece of the puzzle is missing. This person will be able to touch your soul and mind in ways you never thought imagineable nor have you ever experienced.

For me, the love of my life, he is so much more than just a man to me. He is truly my angel, my soulmate, my best friend, my companion, my lover, my biggest supporter, my comfort, my home, my hope, my inspiration and my walking dream come true. Together, I believe, we have truly found a beauty, a rarity and a clarity in each other and about life in general. Together, as the time passes, we endure an amount of happiness that I venture to say most people might not ever experience on their whole loves sadly. We also, like every relationship, face difficulties and challenges. However, through it all, we have an unwavering commitment and unshakeable bond to each other and a devotion to our love. This is also what signifies a grand difference between a soulmate relation and a life partner relation, because you are able to continuously overpass obstacles and tribulations and your want, love, care and affection for each other doesn’t change, if anything, as with my love and I, it grows stronger.

Since having to be physically separated now, it is true that my love for him has heightened and I cannot even imagine how that can be so when we already have so much love for each other. Nonetheless, the BEAUTY of our relationship never ceases to amaze me, the RARITY of it is an endless intrigue to us both and the CLARITY we receive through each other’s minds and hearts is unparalleled and something I will continue to cherish and revere everyday.

 

To my love, El Rey, You truly are my King sweetheart. You are the best part of everyday for me, you make my soul pleased and happy and filled with endless wonder and intrigue of what our life together holds ahead of us. I miss you so very much while we are apart and hope we can soon be reunited permananetly to never have to part ways again. I am your biggest supporter, I believe in YOU and all your dreams and I will be there right beside you helping you and encouraging you to make them all realities as we’ve made our love story a reality. TE AMO !

 

To our readers, I sincerely hope that our love story can inspire and make you believe that you can find your soulmate and you can experience this kind of love. I definitely will not venture to say it is guaranteed nor easy to come by, as research says over and over again that the majority of times when soulmates meet, are at the very worst times in their lives or completely wrong circumstances, however, that’s also what tells them/alerts them that this “is the one”!  So whenever or wherever you find him/her, know that the beauty, rarity and clarity you will receive in that relationship will far surpass and out weight the heartache or pain or difficulties you will endure to be with this person.

 

La Reina

Difference between Love and Sex

Friends! It has been a while since I last wrote here, and trust me when I tell you that it wasn’t for the lack of trying. I have had many different topics in mind that I wanted to write about, and when I sat down to write today, this was the one that came to mind. It truly encompasses everything that is RIGHT with the relationship you were meant to have! 

I have seen the picture quote above many times, but never has it ever made as much sense, never has it been as clear to me exactly what it means until recently when I found the love that I have with La Reina. All our lives, we can spend them taking our clothes off and going through the motions for what we believe to be “making love” yes, it will still be enjoyable (most times) and yes, it can still bring pleasure (most times again) but there always seems to be something “off” and its just hard to pinpoint and put your finger on it. 

Having been through a couple of long term relationships myself, you can’t say that it wasn’t for lack of trying to learn everything that the other person wanted, everything that they desired and to truly get comfortable with time to love fully the way you want and not awkwardly the way it is when you first start off in a new relationship. 

So where am I going with all this? Simple. I am telling you today, that based on everything that I have been through and learned that I now finally know what it means to truly LOVE someone completely, wholeheartedly and not just with my body but with my soul. 

I know now what it means to explore every inch, feel every groove and truly touch the soul of another human being while opening mine. Our time together has been nothing less than extra ordinary, we connect each and every day in all the best possible ways to re-afirm just how much we truly love and mean to each other. We incessantly message and remind each other that our love knows no boundaries, that we can’t wait to spend each and every waking second with each other and when we don’t it feels as if a part of you is missing completely. 

Can I say that sparks fly, and the fireworks show starts each and every time that we are intimately together?….actually…this time I CAN, and it absolutely does. We embrace each other after our days with the power of two magnets, drawn to each other…as if we had not seen each other in months, we clash our bodies together and our kiss alone is the stuff that dreams are made out of. With this kiss, we begin our day, we end our night and we meet together again each and every time. That kiss, opens up the gateway to our deeper connection and before we know it, time has flown by because of our incessant passion for each other. 

No relationship is PERFECT, this is a well known fact. But, that doesn’t mean that relationships can’t reach levels of near perfection because of the following factors (not in any particular order of importance) 

• Compatibility 
• Mutual Respect
• Sexuality
• Emotional Intelligence
• Attractiveness
• Communication 
• Love
• Self Esteem

Because we identified those factors in our relationship (and many smaller factors) we have been able to form a relationship that neither of us has ever experienced and know full well never would with anyone else but each other. One of our favorite things to say to each other is “I was made to be with you” How beautiful it is to FEEL that this person you are sharing your life with…baring your entirety and naked soul was completely designed and made for you. I of course reciprocate the though and say the same exact thing in return because that is how I feel. 

Friends, I will leave you today with this thought, if you are in a relationship where you feel this important part of it is lacking…look to your inner self and figure out the root of why? Could it be that you are lacking one of the above factors, or could it be that much like La Reina and I before we met each other…settled for relationships that were not meant for us. IS that someone out there waiting for you? IF so, I would say to you, do not be afraid to Fail….but be afraid not to TRY. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve, you owe it to yourself.

With much love and respect.

El Rey 

 

REALLY WORK AS A TEAM

Hello there readers! It has been a couple weeks since my last blog so I wanted to share my thoughts today with you about a topic that is a daily staple in my life with my sweetheart. That is, the importance and benefit of truly working as a functioning, versatile, and dynamic team with your love partner/significant other through life.  This might sound cliche or stereotypical or even easy to do such as “that’s common sense”‘ yet if it was that effortless or easy, why don’t more couple act like a team playing on the same side instead of against to each other or on their own?

Its because it is a conscience decision and choice to work with your loved one as one unit, and most importantly, you have to have the chemistry and synergy from your love to make this possible.  When this happens and is put in action by the two of you, you cannot imagine my friends the haloes, joy and success in life you will experience! My sweetheart and I, El Rey, have been blessed to find each other and know now more than ever what it means to truly work as a team, a unit, as one. It is utterly satisfying and makes everything and anything in life more sweeter, beautiful and able to endure or overcome any adversity or obstacle, as there will always be those for couples and individuals.

The love of my life and I have put this into practice every single day and although he tends to have to remind me that I am no longer alone nor ever have to do things alone anymore, I am very appreciate for experiencing this type of relationship and love that truly puts into perspective what working together in this life is all about. Folks, you might have read a quote about “humans were not meant to be alone, life is meant to be experienced with others, with someone”. While this is true, I believe, we have to consider the “teammate” we are choosing to go through this life with.  Life will always give us challenges in many aspects along with the wonderful, joyous experiences too and all these are best shared with the right partner by your side who  together, are a unit, a highly capable and functioning team that is always striving to stay on same page and lift each other up.

I hope you don’t take these words lightly because from experience right now I can tell you that I’ve never felt a love like this before or had such a capable partner/teammate to tackle and enjoy this life together! To work as a team in every aspect of your lives, it adds Intrinsically to both peoples lives and to the life you are building together, side by side. When you look at your relationship, can you answer the question, “are we working as a real team? As equal partners and truly tackling and experiencing life together?” This is a very simple, yet important question to ask in your relationship and it is my hope and wish that you are and if not, that you can work towards making that a reality. Being part of a team, you must understand that it means giving and taking, balancing constantly, reciprocating and constantly communicating. It is not all time that both people will be strong, therefore, work together to constantly restore the harmony and melody for “your song”.

El Rey and the love we share have taught me what true love can do, what two people who are truly dedicated to their relationship can accomplish and experience and it’s truly unimaginable happiness and satisfaction. I know that we both want everyone to feel that and why we share our love story with you.

To MY TEAMMATE, MY PARTNER, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, MY ANGEL……..  Thank you sweetheart for loving me the way you do and working together in harmony with me everyday to experience all this life has to offer and to endure the trials and tribulations that come. We are a solid, Unbreakable force that is fueled and charged by love, passion, respect, kindness and devotion. I love you with all my heart and soul, my soulmate, my teammate, and I will spend the rest of my life at your side, rooting for you, rooting for us and loving you endlessly.

 

La Reina

His Love Makes me The Best Version of Myself

 

Friends, I want to share with you my thoughts and feelings of how I now know one of the most important things that true love can do……when someone truly loves you, all of you, they and their love help you become the best version of yourself!

I had always heard this in the past, but wrote it off because I always presumed that we ourselves are responsible for making ourselves better or making our loves better. Although this is still true, it’s much more than this and I can tell you with certainty that when you find your soulmate in your best friend, your lover, your life companion, their love and that person CAN make you the best version of yourself that you only dreamed of!

This has been happening to me recently and it’s really amazing to see the transformation within myself and all from positive, good aspects. The love of my life, El Rey, has and is helping me through his tender love and care to become the best version of me that I always knew I could be, or wanted to be, and sometimes more than I ever expected to be! His love empowers me, supports me, lifts me, motivates me, encourages me, understands me, doesn’t judge me, and most of all PUSHES ME out of my comfort zones/limits I had placed on myself.

Folks, in a healthy relationship, the love and friendship from that person shouldn’t ever be a negative force in your life or detract, prohibit or hinder your goals, ambitions, dreams and aspirations. Instead, their love should do the opposite, and be that muse, that inspiration, that motivation and that resounding voice saying “you can do it!” This is when you will really start to see what true love can do……..

To my sweetheart, my love, my everything, babe I can’t thank you enough for pushing me way further out of my comfort zone than I’ve ever been before on many aspects! Your love truly, deeply and wholeheartedly makes me feel like I can soar higher than ever, accomplish and achieve anything I want to do and you make me feel so good about myself, the person, the woman I am! Your love starves and squashes any fears I used to have because with you honey, as long as I have you by my side, I feel that anything is possible!

You have given me so many gifts through your precious love and this is one of them. I know understand true love CAN and SHOULD only ADD, never take away, from the person each of us was meant to become.

To our readers, it is my hope that your partner, your relationship is feeding your desires and dreams, and helping you to achieve them, not stunt your growth or prohibit your ambitions. It is a beautiful blessing when you and your partner can both do this for each other and that’s when you will really see all that you both were meant to become, and the best part…….you get to share and experience it side by side 🙂

La Reina

Make Your Relationship Your Refuge

Hello again friends! I want to share with you today my thoughts and feelings as I express them to my sweetheart, to the love of my life on making your relationship/your love an oasis/a refuge for both you to go to and find comfort in when you have hard days, hard thoughts, trials and tribulations in life,because friends we cannot escape any of these as humans.

To my love, my best friend, my everything…..I want you to know that with me, you can always find solace, comfort, love and tenderness. I want to be your oasis of peace, enlightenment and joy. That is what my love for you allows me to do for you as your love for me gives me so much as well. You are my best friend, my life partner, and my future husband and as your future wife, it is my duty to love you and provide you voice of reason or when I can’t, at least that you can come to me for comfort and contentment when your mind is troubled baby.

I truly believe that in relationships, of course some things are better kept unsaid if it will be truly harm your significant other, however, when it comes to feelings or thoughts that trouble your heart, I believe sharing them with your partner is best because then you both can address them and cope or overcome them, together. We forget a lot of times, that we all NEED someone, at some point, sometime. We as humans, are not meant to endure life alone or be forced to figure out everything in our own minds or carry burden alone. My love, please understand that in me, in our love, you no longer and I no longer have to carry burdens alone or shoulder my pain or troubled alone. We have each other and you as my future husband, love of my life, my soulmate, needs to trust and understand I can help share your load honey as you help share mine. We do this for each other, not of obligation, but out of true love.

Our minds can play tricks on us in the dark, at night, or in our aloneness and distance. But wherever you are my love, I’m always with you and connected to you. We are one, despite not officially honey, and I honor, obey, respect and love you endlessly and insatiably. The depth of my love for you and us goes far beyond your imagination and I think you had a glimpse of that now. The best thing we can continue to do for each other is make our relationship, our love, a refuge, a safe haven, an oasis where we both look to and find comfort and love and solitude in this world we live in.

For your arms, your touch, your look, your kiss are what soothes me and I hope to give the same gift to you everyday.

Friends, I really encourage you to strive to make and construct your relationship in this manner because this is the foundation of how to battle and overcome life’s difficult times and dilemmas. And where El Rey earlier post about friendship is most important key to sustaining a successful relation/marriage comes Into focus. 🙂

To the love of my life, I am always by your side honey, in difficult times and happy times, which everyday I have you in my life, will be happy. Each day is a new day, a gift, a blessing and I will continue to cherish you each and every day as we’ve learned to live in the present time and devote each day to loving each other most we can. You’re my heart, soul, best friend and much more. I love you endlessly, and am devoted to you and our love.

La Reina

 

 

An Insatiable Love

 

When I was first asked this question, I can honestly say that I DID NOT know the answer. I really thought I did, and I certainly believed it long enough to think that I even had it right! So what was the question? IF I were to ask you this question today, what would be your answer? 

“What do YOU love about your Partner/Spouse/Significant Other?”

Of course, it is a complex question to answer with a simple answer, but when we all think about it, I am sure that there was one thing that jumped out at you the most about what you loved about that SPECIAL person the most. Want to know mine? I have always fallen in love with a persons heart, how kind they were as well as how caring and compassionate. That is not to say that I was not physically attracted to them since I would always follow it up with “Their smile or Their Eyes” 

And yet, it simply just never seemed “Right” or enough of an answer to justify how I truly felt. That is….It wasn’t until I finally found MY Angel..my love of my life and best friend…”La Reina” She, and she alone made me realize just how wrong I had been all along to think the way I did. She inadvertently taught me that not only was I wrong with the answer that I was giving, but through her sheer love, commitment and caring heart she once again helped me to find the right answer. She has inspired me in many ways to think and feel differently about OUR life.

So, you may be asking….”So…what did you learn and what do YOU consider to be “right” answer to that question if anyone were to ever ask me?” A answer so deceptively simple…and yet so incredibly hard to comprehend and come across. The answer to that question now is…”What do YOU love about your Lover/Partner?” ….simple… I now say: EVERYTHING. 

I truly, wholeheartedly and madly love her more than anything that I have ever experienced. This epiphany alone has helped me to cement the idea that I have finally found THE ONE. I truly love EVERY SINGLE thing about her..The way her smile lights up my life, the way she feels while I hold her in my arms, the way she loves me unconditionally and insatiably and most of all, the FACT that she feels the same exact way about me as I do of her. 

You see my friends, LOVE, doesn’t have to be an enigma that escapes us all, you just have to remember that you have everything you need to find it, and nurture it inside YOU. Remember that in life, LOVE is too important for you to accept anything but EXCELLENCE. Chose to never settle when it comes to matters of the heart and you (and your heart) will thank you for it later! 

My love….I love you so much more each and every day that passes by, You truly are perfection embodied for me, and I can honestly say that you are the very first person in my life with whom I truly feel the way I do. I can finally answer that question the “right” way and proudly announce to the whole world just how much I love and what my favorite thing about you is..You make it easy to love you and I can’t wait to continue spending the rest of our lives together. I LOVE YOU HONEY!!! 

To your success and never settling down for less than you deserve my friends….

El Rey 

 

His love heals her

Friends I write you today with a heavy heart, but nonetheless couldn’t think of anyone more than I’d rather share my thoughts with than you reading this and of course to the love of my life. For my true love and I to be together, as you may have read in his earlier posts, we both had to make difficult decisions that changed course of our lives and the people involved with us. We both know everyday in our hearts that we made the right choice by choosing each other and the future we both always dreamed about. However, we are not exempt from pain, sadness or heartache for others in our lives or people we’ve shared our lived with before him and I met.

I think it is true that it’s both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so deeply….. As him and I do. The highest highs and the lowest lows…. And on days like today where we both feel the emotional tug and backlash of pursuing our own happiness and for first time in our loves being “selfish”, I can honestly say there is only one thing that continues to stay at the forefront of my mind and heart and what literally gets me through these tough emotions and everyday…..and that is HIS LOVE. THE LOVE OF my best friend, my life companion, my sweetheart, my future husband. His love first rescued me…. And now his love heals me. His love for me is so powerful and deep, that it continues to mend wounds of my past that I forgot were lurking inside, his love heals and guards away any negative thoughts or mentalities and his love brings me back to remember and focus on what’s most important right now, which is our love and our future that we wish to build together.

In my whole life, I’ve always put everyone else happiness and needs before my own and I’ve sacrificed my own happiness many times for those I loved dearly. Now, for the first time in my life, I decided to put my own hopes, dreams and happiness first for the life I’ve always dreamed of with my sweetheart, and he has done same for me, however folks, this doesn’t mean we escape reality or we love without guilt or sadness/empathy for others that we love. This is the difficult part, both him and I have to cope with and hope time will heal it all for the others we care for so deeply…

you too might have experienced, or be experiencing similar emotions to him and I right now and it is my sincerest hope that you have a true love like I’ve found in him, that can mend and carry you through anything life throws your way, even the toughest of emotions such as guilt and heartache for loved ones.

to the love of my life, I feel and share your happiness as well as your pain, we are one, our souls completely and irrevocably intertwined and please know,that it is YOUR LOVE THAT HEALS ME EVERYDAY and continues to be my strength and guiding light. You are my angel and truly the man of my life, my best friend. I know there are difficult days like today, for one of us or both of us, but amongst any uncertainty this world brings, there is never uncertainty in our love or us, because our love is truly unwavering, unbreakable and insatiable.

 

I love you so much and find complete comfort in your arms and eyes…

La Reina

 

 

Life’s Tough Choices

Ernest Hemingway said it best in his quote above. We really Do have to get used to the idea that in Life….whenever we are about to make the toughest and hardest possible choices, you can expect that (extremely rarely) there will be any “signs” to let you know if you are doing the right or wrong thing.

So…you may ask, “How can I move forward knowing I’ve made the RIGHT choice?” I want you to get your pen and paper ready or read very carefully what I am about to say next for this very important question. How can I know IF I’ve made the right choice? The answer to this question is:

“I have no earthly idea” But then again, nobody does. For you see, that is the beauty and the curse of having a free will. We are allowed to make our own mistakes and not find out about our consequences until after the fact. Are you still with me? You may be saying now, “Well that doesn’t help me in the least!” And you would be right, but once again, there is another important factor to keep in mind before we move forward.

Once again, much like I’ve already written on my previous posts, it is imperative to TRY and find the right partner…the right PERSON in your life that can be a sounding board for you and all the things that comprise you. When LIFE places you at a crossroad, and you really don’t have any clue as to what to do next, think of that ONE person whom you can talk to…who understands you and who really truly wants nothing but the best in life for you. IF you are lucky enough, this person is the person whom you are deeply and madly in love with who can provide you some guidance and help you navigate through these tough times, for everyone else, FRIENDSHIP is always the best alternative. I will write a separate post regarding what it truly means to have/find a “good” friendship in the near future but for now, I can only hope and pray that you have one already.

This person can and WILL become your ROCK…your FOUNDATION from you which you will grow and individually and almost feel as if you were “reborn” but with much greater strength, love, life and determination to go after the things that YOU want most in your life. As you read my words here and now, realize that YOU are not alone when it comes to any of the tough or seemingly impossible choices that have to be made in YOUR life in order to find, get and win the things that you want. Life at times can seem like a series of tough to impossible choices, but with the RIGHT person, these choices will not only be much easier to get through, but the healing will begin immediately.

Friends, no matter how hard the choices we have to make, no matter how much pain there is to endure, no matter how scary the future may seem, always remember that EVERYONE goes through these “Tough” choices…and that YOU are never alone. YOU always have a friend IN ME and I am always ready to listen and help however I can. Always fight for your happiness, never settle for anything less than what you deserve and remember that because we only live one life…it is worth living a life of “OH WELL’S, INSTEAD OF WHAT IF’S” Make those tough choices, and learn those tough lessons, and although the lessons won’t always be pleasant…you never know if your rainbow is waiting at the other side of that door…

To the woman of my dreams…THANK YOU for being my rock, thank you for being by my side and reminding me HOW MUCH YOU LOVE me. WE have made our tough choices in life and were rewarded with each other. I love you more than words can express and I will continue to remind you why you were the greatest treasure I almost never had. I love you baby!

 

With Much Love my friends…

El Rey

What is the Foundation of a Relationship? (Surprise!)

When one is first asked this question, there are many many things that come to mind of course. The more obvious being “Communication” “Intimacy” “Trust” etc…YES, all of the things mentioned here are really what make up the foundation of what being in a happy relationship means…but, interestingly enough, what is one of the ones left out that could quite possibly the most important of them all? 

The answer seems deceptively simple and yet we as human beings always seem to overlook this one VERY important aspect of a beautiful working relationship……FRIENDSHIP. Friendship is one of the most overlooked things in the foundation of great relationship simply because its not the first thing that comes to mind. But why? “Friendship in any relationship means that you genuinely like spending time around that person, you see each other not only as man/woman/sexual/romantic beings, but as people. It allows you to overcome life’s difficulties as a TEAM”. That, was one of the best descriptions to date that I have had the pleasure of being shown to me today….by who you may ask? none other than MY BEST FRIEND. I love my love of my life with a fire that burns deep in the depths of my soul. I make sure to remind her MANY times a day just how much I not only enjoy her company, how much I miss her every minute of the day that we are not together, how much I deeply love her and urgently need her in my life.

Now friends, before I continue…I want to say that I have experienced this thing we call “LOVE” my fair share of times in life, however, NEVER has it been like this, never has it been the same intense level that me and my (future) Wife share. I let her know every single day through both words and actions that SHE is the WOMAN of my dreams, and of course, she does the same exact thing for me every single day as well. For you see, we both consider ourselves EXTREMELY lucky to have found each other and have worked for our love to flourish. We knew there was an instant attraction since the first time we met, but never did we think that we would end up here where we are today (did we honey??!) I love my woman to death, and she knows I would do anything within my power for her, and I can honestly say that she would do the same for me. 

Our love is much more than just “being in love”. For the first time in our lives, WE have found our BEST FRIENDS and that aspect alone ensures that WE will never get tired of each others company. We very eagerly look forward to see each other every single day, we very communicate incessantly throughout the entirety of the day and when it comes to seeing each other in person, can you guess what happens? YES, we still have much more left to talk about. For you see, that is in my eyes the key to a happy and successful relationship. Always being able to communicate your thoughts, needs and wants to your partner and they in return make all of your dreams come true and vice versa.

To the woman of my dreams. Thank you for being the love of my life, thank you for always giving me more to look forward to each and every day, and of course thank you for selecting me as your ONE and only. I am truly looking forward to spend and everlasting time with you in our life. I LOVE YOU BABY!!

El Rey 

Cherish What/Who You Have

Good morning readers! I woke up this morning like I have been lately filled with love, happiness, brightness and enthusiasm to take on the day ahead of me, all thanks to the love of my life, the man of my dreams, my sweetheart. I told him this morning as I do most everyday how thankful I am for all he is and does for me and for us and it got my to thinking I wanted to share something with all you that I truly feel makes a difference not just in your romantic partnership but in life as well. That is to always CHERISH and APPRECIATE the person who chooses to be with you and you with them. I see in today’s worlds and I’ve experienced it in my previous relationships, that one person doesn’t appreciate or truly cherish their significant other. When I speak about this, I am talking beyond saying “thank you”. It goes beyond words my friends. When you cherish someone, it is expressed in the tone of your voice, the touch of your hand, the look in your eyes and of course, through your words. To make them feel utterly appreciated and cherished for the things they do for you or make you feel because many times people think that just because you are in a relationship, that all of that is “automatic” or “given” and thus “loses” value/meaning. Whereas, if we can take a different perspective in our relationships today folks and treat everything as that it’s not a given or expected from your significant other, you’d see how much more special and meaningful the “little things” can be!

When you you appreciate someone’s sweet words or loving gestures or feelings towards you as if they are truly a gift or surprise to you, that is when your eyes are opened to extraordinary things and when the universe, we believe, will grant you your wishes and desires because you value everything that much more instead of feeling entitled to it or owed. Yes, everyone deserves happiness and love. However, those who cherish and value another persons love towards them, that is how you start to see the deeper meaning to life and love.

To the man of my dreams and love of my life, I am truly devoted to you and our love and I wholeheartedly cherish you and the life we are creating together…. Which is why you make me feel everyday with you is like “my birthday”!

 

I love you…

 

La Reina